CIVIL DISOBEDIENCE

In movies, most teenages we watch start their civil disobedience with well kind of crazy stuff - a tatoo on the body (somewhere others can not see) a nose perse something small and discrete. Seems all to them that it's a cry for freedom or should i say making a dissision for themselves. Others go out and come back late deliberately and choose some sort of risky behavior since the world is at their fingertips.
But then there are others out there, others who feel they just have to wait for this so called freedom to come, those who believe in honor and values who don't necessary get treated well but have to accept what comes to them just as it is.
Timid and humble as they are most posses a hidden problem and believe me theres is more than what those on the wild ride get. They bottle their emotions and their desires in the hopes of keeping the peace in the family, their opinions never really matter cause it's none existant and if in a family where dog barks to get what it wants, then they just have to fend with the leftovers.
The question on my mind about these is simple, should they giveup their honor and take a more aggressive stance and the risk of trampling on others to get
what they want or should they just wait on......